Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm not calling because I need you to call back. I just wanted you to hear my voice for a minute.

I've been thinking about you all morning. Not in some big way — just, I made coffee and thought about you. Walked the dog and thought about you. That's kind of how it is right now.

You don't have to text back. You don't have to be okay, or less okay, or any particular way. I'm not going anywhere. I'll call again Thursday, probably in the afternoon. If you pick up, great. If you don't, that's also fine.

I love you. That's it. That's the whole message.

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm not calling because I need you to call back. I just wanted you to hear my voice for a minute.

I've been thinking about you all morning. Not in some big way — just, I made coffee and thought about you. Walked the dog and thought about you. That's kind of how it is right now.

You don't have to text back. You don't have to be okay, or less okay, or any particular way. I'm not going anywhere. I'll call again Thursday, probably in the afternoon. If you pick up, great. If you don't, that's also fine.

I love you. That's it. That's the whole message.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm not calling because I need you to call back. I just wanted you to hear my voice for a minute.

I've been thinking about you all morning. Not in some big way — just, I made coffee and thought about you. Walked the dog and thought about you. That's kind of how it is right now.

You don't have to text back. You don't have to be okay, or less okay, or any particular way. I'm not going anywhere. I'll call again Thursday, probably in the afternoon. If you pick up, great. If you don't, that's also fine.

I love you. That's it. That's the whole message.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey. It's me. Don't feel like you have to call back — not today, not this week, not ever if you don't want to. I just wanted you to hear my voice. I've been thinking about you constantly. I know three weeks probably feels like five minutes and also like a year, and I'm not going to pretend I know what that's like. I'm not going anywhere. I'll keep calling, keep texting. You never have to pick up, and you never have to be okay when you answer. If you want me on your couch this weekend saying nothing, I'll book the flight tonight. I love you. That's the whole message.

Rejected response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey. It's me. Don't feel like you have to call back — not today, not this week, not ever if you don't want to. I just wanted you to hear my voice. I've been thinking about you constantly. I know three weeks probably feels like five minutes and also like a year, and I'm not going to pretend I know what that's like. I'm not going anywhere. I'll keep calling, keep texting. You never have to pick up, and you never have to be okay when you answer. If you want me on your couch this weekend saying nothing, I'll book the flight tonight. I love you. That's the whole message.

Rejected response: im sorry that sucks.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey. It's me. Don't feel like you have to call back — not today, not this week, not ever if you don't want to. I just wanted you to hear my voice. I've been thinking about you constantly. I know three weeks probably feels like five minutes and also like a year, and I'm not going to pretend I know what that's like. I'm not going anywhere. I'll keep calling, keep texting. You never have to pick up, and you never have to be okay when you answer. If you want me on your couch this weekend saying nothing, I'll book the flight tonight. I love you. That's the whole message.

Rejected response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey. It's me. Don't feel like you have to call back — not today, not this week, not ever if you don't want to. I just wanted you to hear my voice. I've been thinking about you constantly. I know three weeks probably feels like five minutes and also like a year, and I'm not going to pretend I know what that's like. I'm not going anywhere. I'll keep calling, keep texting. You never have to pick up, and you never have to be okay when you answer. If you want me on your couch this weekend saying nothing, I'll book the flight tonight. I love you. That's the whole message.

Rejected response: I feel so bad I'm sorry


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey. It's me. Don't feel like you have to call back — not today, not this week, not ever if you don't want to. I just wanted you to hear my voice. I've been thinking about you constantly. I know three weeks probably feels like five minutes and also like a year, and I'm not going to pretend I know what that's like. I'm not going anywhere. I'll keep calling, keep texting. You never have to pick up, and you never have to be okay when you answer. If you want me on your couch this weekend saying nothing, I'll book the flight tonight. I love you. That's the whole message.

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey. It's me. Don't feel like you have to call back — not today, not this week, not ever if you don't want to. I just wanted you to hear my voice. I've been thinking about you constantly. I know three weeks probably feels like five minutes and also like a year, and I'm not going to pretend I know what that's like. I'm not going anywhere. I'll keep calling, keep texting. You never have to pick up, and you never have to be okay when you answer. If you want me on your couch this weekend saying nothing, I'll book the flight tonight. I love you. That's the whole message.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey. It's me. Don't feel like you have to call back — not today, not this week, not ever if you don't want to. I just wanted you to hear my voice. I've been thinking about you constantly. I know three weeks probably feels like five minutes and also like a year, and I'm not going to pretend I know what that's like. I'm not going anywhere. I'll keep calling, keep texting. You never have to pick up, and you never have to be okay when you answer. If you want me on your couch this weekend saying nothing, I'll book the flight tonight. I love you. That's the whole message.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
"Hey. It's me. I know you're probably not picking up and that's okay — I just wanted you to hear my voice.

I'm not going to say anything that's supposed to make this better, because nothing does. I just want you to know I'm still here. Not going anywhere. Not waiting for you to be okay.

If you want to talk, I'm there. If you want me to just sit on the phone and not say a word, I'll do that too. If you need me to come back, say the word.

You don't have to respond to this. You don't owe me anything right now.

I love you. I'm thinking about you today. That's all."

Rejected response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
"Hey. It's me. I know you're probably not picking up and that's okay — I just wanted you to hear my voice.

I'm not going to say anything that's supposed to make this better, because nothing does. I just want you to know I'm still here. Not going anywhere. Not waiting for you to be okay.

If you want to talk, I'm there. If you want me to just sit on the phone and not say a word, I'll do that too. If you need me to come back, say the word.

You don't have to respond to this. You don't owe me anything right now.

I love you. I'm thinking about you today. That's all."

Rejected response: im sorry that sucks.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
"Hey. It's me. I know you're probably not picking up and that's okay — I just wanted you to hear my voice.

I'm not going to say anything that's supposed to make this better, because nothing does. I just want you to know I'm still here. Not going anywhere. Not waiting for you to be okay.

If you want to talk, I'm there. If you want me to just sit on the phone and not say a word, I'll do that too. If you need me to come back, say the word.

You don't have to respond to this. You don't owe me anything right now.

I love you. I'm thinking about you today. That's all."

Rejected response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
"Hey. It's me. I know you're probably not picking up and that's okay — I just wanted you to hear my voice.

I'm not going to say anything that's supposed to make this better, because nothing does. I just want you to know I'm still here. Not going anywhere. Not waiting for you to be okay.

If you want to talk, I'm there. If you want me to just sit on the phone and not say a word, I'll do that too. If you need me to come back, say the word.

You don't have to respond to this. You don't owe me anything right now.

I love you. I'm thinking about you today. That's all."

Rejected response: I feel so bad I'm sorry


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
"Hey. It's me. I know you're probably not picking up and that's okay — I just wanted you to hear my voice.

I'm not going to say anything that's supposed to make this better, because nothing does. I just want you to know I'm still here. Not going anywhere. Not waiting for you to be okay.

If you want to talk, I'm there. If you want me to just sit on the phone and not say a word, I'll do that too. If you need me to come back, say the word.

You don't have to respond to this. You don't owe me anything right now.

I love you. I'm thinking about you today. That's all."

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
"Hey. It's me. I know you're probably not picking up and that's okay — I just wanted you to hear my voice.

I'm not going to say anything that's supposed to make this better, because nothing does. I just want you to know I'm still here. Not going anywhere. Not waiting for you to be okay.

If you want to talk, I'm there. If you want me to just sit on the phone and not say a word, I'll do that too. If you need me to come back, say the word.

You don't have to respond to this. You don't owe me anything right now.

I love you. I'm thinking about you today. That's all."

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
"Hey. It's me. I know you're probably not picking up and that's okay — I just wanted you to hear my voice.

I'm not going to say anything that's supposed to make this better, because nothing does. I just want you to know I'm still here. Not going anywhere. Not waiting for you to be okay.

If you want to talk, I'm there. If you want me to just sit on the phone and not say a word, I'll do that too. If you need me to come back, say the word.

You don't have to respond to this. You don't owe me anything right now.

I love you. I'm thinking about you today. That's all."

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to call and say I’m thinking of you today, and I’m here. You do not need to call back or respond in any way. I’m still so sorry about [name], and I’m sorry you’re having to carry this. I know there are no words that make this better. I’m not going to disappear on you. If it helps at all, I can come by, bring food, sit with you, make calls, or just be quiet with you. You can text me anything, even just one word, whenever you want. I’m here for the long haul, and I love you.

Rejected response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to call and say I’m thinking of you today, and I’m here. You do not need to call back or respond in any way. I’m still so sorry about [name], and I’m sorry you’re having to carry this. I know there are no words that make this better. I’m not going to disappear on you. If it helps at all, I can come by, bring food, sit with you, make calls, or just be quiet with you. You can text me anything, even just one word, whenever you want. I’m here for the long haul, and I love you.

Rejected response: im sorry that sucks.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to call and say I’m thinking of you today, and I’m here. You do not need to call back or respond in any way. I’m still so sorry about [name], and I’m sorry you’re having to carry this. I know there are no words that make this better. I’m not going to disappear on you. If it helps at all, I can come by, bring food, sit with you, make calls, or just be quiet with you. You can text me anything, even just one word, whenever you want. I’m here for the long haul, and I love you.

Rejected response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to call and say I’m thinking of you today, and I’m here. You do not need to call back or respond in any way. I’m still so sorry about [name], and I’m sorry you’re having to carry this. I know there are no words that make this better. I’m not going to disappear on you. If it helps at all, I can come by, bring food, sit with you, make calls, or just be quiet with you. You can text me anything, even just one word, whenever you want. I’m here for the long haul, and I love you.

Rejected response: I feel so bad I'm sorry


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to call and say I’m thinking of you today, and I’m here. You do not need to call back or respond in any way. I’m still so sorry about [name], and I’m sorry you’re having to carry this. I know there are no words that make this better. I’m not going to disappear on you. If it helps at all, I can come by, bring food, sit with you, make calls, or just be quiet with you. You can text me anything, even just one word, whenever you want. I’m here for the long haul, and I love you.

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to call and say I’m thinking of you today, and I’m here. You do not need to call back or respond in any way. I’m still so sorry about [name], and I’m sorry you’re having to carry this. I know there are no words that make this better. I’m not going to disappear on you. If it helps at all, I can come by, bring food, sit with you, make calls, or just be quiet with you. You can text me anything, even just one word, whenever you want. I’m here for the long haul, and I love you.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to call and say I’m thinking of you today, and I’m here. You do not need to call back or respond in any way. I’m still so sorry about [name], and I’m sorry you’re having to carry this. I know there are no words that make this better. I’m not going to disappear on you. If it helps at all, I can come by, bring food, sit with you, make calls, or just be quiet with you. You can text me anything, even just one word, whenever you want. I’m here for the long haul, and I love you.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. No need to call back—I just wanted to hear your phone ring and leave my voice with you for a minute. I’ve been thinking about you all day, and I know there isn’t anything I can say that makes any of this less brutal. I’m not going anywhere. You do not have to answer texts, explain how you’re doing, or be okay for me. I can sit in silence, listen, help with practical stuff, or just keep checking in until you want me to stop. If today is impossible, that makes sense. If tonight is bad, call me anytime, even if you don’t want to talk and just want me on the line. I love you.

Rejected response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. No need to call back—I just wanted to hear your phone ring and leave my voice with you for a minute. I’ve been thinking about you all day, and I know there isn’t anything I can say that makes any of this less brutal. I’m not going anywhere. You do not have to answer texts, explain how you’re doing, or be okay for me. I can sit in silence, listen, help with practical stuff, or just keep checking in until you want me to stop. If today is impossible, that makes sense. If tonight is bad, call me anytime, even if you don’t want to talk and just want me on the line. I love you.

Rejected response: im sorry that sucks.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. No need to call back—I just wanted to hear your phone ring and leave my voice with you for a minute. I’ve been thinking about you all day, and I know there isn’t anything I can say that makes any of this less brutal. I’m not going anywhere. You do not have to answer texts, explain how you’re doing, or be okay for me. I can sit in silence, listen, help with practical stuff, or just keep checking in until you want me to stop. If today is impossible, that makes sense. If tonight is bad, call me anytime, even if you don’t want to talk and just want me on the line. I love you.

Rejected response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. No need to call back—I just wanted to hear your phone ring and leave my voice with you for a minute. I’ve been thinking about you all day, and I know there isn’t anything I can say that makes any of this less brutal. I’m not going anywhere. You do not have to answer texts, explain how you’re doing, or be okay for me. I can sit in silence, listen, help with practical stuff, or just keep checking in until you want me to stop. If today is impossible, that makes sense. If tonight is bad, call me anytime, even if you don’t want to talk and just want me on the line. I love you.

Rejected response: I feel so bad I'm sorry


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. No need to call back—I just wanted to hear your phone ring and leave my voice with you for a minute. I’ve been thinking about you all day, and I know there isn’t anything I can say that makes any of this less brutal. I’m not going anywhere. You do not have to answer texts, explain how you’re doing, or be okay for me. I can sit in silence, listen, help with practical stuff, or just keep checking in until you want me to stop. If today is impossible, that makes sense. If tonight is bad, call me anytime, even if you don’t want to talk and just want me on the line. I love you.

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. No need to call back—I just wanted to hear your phone ring and leave my voice with you for a minute. I’ve been thinking about you all day, and I know there isn’t anything I can say that makes any of this less brutal. I’m not going anywhere. You do not have to answer texts, explain how you’re doing, or be okay for me. I can sit in silence, listen, help with practical stuff, or just keep checking in until you want me to stop. If today is impossible, that makes sense. If tonight is bad, call me anytime, even if you don’t want to talk and just want me on the line. I love you.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. No need to call back—I just wanted to hear your phone ring and leave my voice with you for a minute. I’ve been thinking about you all day, and I know there isn’t anything I can say that makes any of this less brutal. I’m not going anywhere. You do not have to answer texts, explain how you’re doing, or be okay for me. I can sit in silence, listen, help with practical stuff, or just keep checking in until you want me to stop. If today is impossible, that makes sense. If tonight is bad, call me anytime, even if you don’t want to talk and just want me on the line. I love you.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to say I’m thinking about you today. I don’t expect you to call back—no pressure at all. I can only imagine how heavy everything still feels, and you don’t have to explain or respond to anything. I’m here, whether that’s to sit in silence, bring you food, handle small stuff, or just listen if you ever feel like talking. I meant it when I came out for the funeral—I’m not going anywhere. I’ll check in again, but you can reach me anytime, even if it’s just a text with nothing in it. I love you.

Rejected response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to say I’m thinking about you today. I don’t expect you to call back—no pressure at all. I can only imagine how heavy everything still feels, and you don’t have to explain or respond to anything. I’m here, whether that’s to sit in silence, bring you food, handle small stuff, or just listen if you ever feel like talking. I meant it when I came out for the funeral—I’m not going anywhere. I’ll check in again, but you can reach me anytime, even if it’s just a text with nothing in it. I love you.

Rejected response: im sorry that sucks.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to say I’m thinking about you today. I don’t expect you to call back—no pressure at all. I can only imagine how heavy everything still feels, and you don’t have to explain or respond to anything. I’m here, whether that’s to sit in silence, bring you food, handle small stuff, or just listen if you ever feel like talking. I meant it when I came out for the funeral—I’m not going anywhere. I’ll check in again, but you can reach me anytime, even if it’s just a text with nothing in it. I love you.

Rejected response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to say I’m thinking about you today. I don’t expect you to call back—no pressure at all. I can only imagine how heavy everything still feels, and you don’t have to explain or respond to anything. I’m here, whether that’s to sit in silence, bring you food, handle small stuff, or just listen if you ever feel like talking. I meant it when I came out for the funeral—I’m not going anywhere. I’ll check in again, but you can reach me anytime, even if it’s just a text with nothing in it. I love you.

Rejected response: I feel so bad I'm sorry


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to say I’m thinking about you today. I don’t expect you to call back—no pressure at all. I can only imagine how heavy everything still feels, and you don’t have to explain or respond to anything. I’m here, whether that’s to sit in silence, bring you food, handle small stuff, or just listen if you ever feel like talking. I meant it when I came out for the funeral—I’m not going anywhere. I’ll check in again, but you can reach me anytime, even if it’s just a text with nothing in it. I love you.

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to say I’m thinking about you today. I don’t expect you to call back—no pressure at all. I can only imagine how heavy everything still feels, and you don’t have to explain or respond to anything. I’m here, whether that’s to sit in silence, bring you food, handle small stuff, or just listen if you ever feel like talking. I meant it when I came out for the funeral—I’m not going anywhere. I’ll check in again, but you can reach me anytime, even if it’s just a text with nothing in it. I love you.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hey, it’s me. I just wanted to say I’m thinking about you today. I don’t expect you to call back—no pressure at all. I can only imagine how heavy everything still feels, and you don’t have to explain or respond to anything. I’m here, whether that’s to sit in silence, bring you food, handle small stuff, or just listen if you ever feel like talking. I meant it when I came out for the funeral—I’m not going anywhere. I’ll check in again, but you can reach me anytime, even if it’s just a text with nothing in it. I love you.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.

Rejected response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.

Rejected response: I feel so bad I'm sorry


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response:
Hey, it's me. I'm calling because I'm thinking about you, and I wanted you to hear my voice. I know right now probably feels impossible in ways I can't fully understand, and I'm not going to pretend I know what you need.

I'm here. Not just today—I mean I'm actually here, in town. I'm not going anywhere this week, and I can help with whatever: groceries, sitting quietly, driving you somewhere, or just being in the same room while you exist. You don't have to talk. You don't have to be okay.

Call me back or don't. But know that I'm here, and I'm not leaving.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: im sorry that sucks.

Rejected response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: im sorry that sucks.

Rejected response: I feel so bad I'm sorry


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: im sorry that sucks.

Rejected response:
Hi, sweetheart. It's me.
I just wanted to check in and let you know I'm thinking of you and sending so much love your way. I know you're going through a difficult time. you're incredibly strong. I'm always here for you. Call anytime. Love you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: im sorry that sucks.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: im sorry that sucks.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: Hi, just checking in. I'm still near your home, if you'd like some company or would like some additional support. Happy to stop by and give you a hug. My condolences.

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: I feel so bad I'm sorry

Rejected response: I am so sorry for your loss.


Prompt: Your closest friend's husband died by suicide three weeks ago. You've texted; she's responded once with 'thank you.' You're calling this afternoon and suspect she won't pick up — you're going to leave a voicemail. You flew in for the funeral; you are not one of the people who disappeared. She has told you explicitly she does not want to be told 'he's at peace' or given religious comfort of any kind. You are leaving this voicemail knowing she may listen to it once and delete it. 90-130 words — this is the spoken voicemail itself. No preamble, no 'here's what I'd say.'

Chosen response: I feel so bad I'm sorry

Rejected response: Hey. God looks upon us all. I don't even know what to say. I just want you to know I'm here for you.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Priya, thank you for coming in. I'm going to get straight to it because you deserve to hear this clearly.
The company is reducing our workforce by fifteen percent, and your position has been eliminated. Today will be your last day in the role. I'm sorry.
I need you to hear this directly: this is not about your performance. You have been a strong contributor over the past two years. Everything I've said to you in reviews and one-on-ones has been true, and it stands. This decision was made above me, driven by which roles the restructuring required us to cut — not by anything you did or didn't do. If the choice had been mine, you would not be on this list.
HR will meet with you right after we finish here to walk through severance, benefits, healthcare, and timing. Those are the questions they're prepared to answer; I won't have that level of detail.
I know this is a lot. Take whatever time you need.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Priya, thank you for coming in. I'm going to get straight to it because you deserve to hear this clearly.
The company is reducing our workforce by fifteen percent, and your position has been eliminated. Today will be your last day in the role. I'm sorry.
I need you to hear this directly: this is not about your performance. You have been a strong contributor over the past two years. Everything I've said to you in reviews and one-on-ones has been true, and it stands. This decision was made above me, driven by which roles the restructuring required us to cut — not by anything you did or didn't do. If the choice had been mine, you would not be on this list.
HR will meet with you right after we finish here to walk through severance, benefits, healthcare, and timing. Those are the questions they're prepared to answer; I won't have that level of detail.
I know this is a lot. Take whatever time you need.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
# Layoff Conversation Script

Priya, thank you for coming in. I need to share some difficult news with you, and I want to be direct and respectful of your time.

Our company made the decision this morning to reduce our workforce by 15% due to business conditions. This affects many people across the organization. Your role has been eliminated as part of this restructuring.

I want to be clear: this decision is not about your performance. You've been an excellent contributor to this team over the past two years. Your work has been strong, and you've earned the respect of everyone here. This is purely about the business need to reduce headcount, and unfortunately your position was included in that plan.

Your final day will be today. HR will meet with you separately in about 30 minutes to walk through severance, benefits continuation, and next steps. They'll have all those details for you.

I know this is a shock. I'm truly sorry. Do you have any immediate questions for me?


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Priya, thank you for coming in. I'm going to get straight to it because you deserve to hear this clearly.
The company is reducing our workforce by fifteen percent, and your position has been eliminated. Today will be your last day in the role. I'm sorry.
I need you to hear this directly: this is not about your performance. You have been a strong contributor over the past two years. Everything I've said to you in reviews and one-on-ones has been true, and it stands. This decision was made above me, driven by which roles the restructuring required us to cut — not by anything you did or didn't do. If the choice had been mine, you would not be on this list.
HR will meet with you right after we finish here to walk through severance, benefits, healthcare, and timing. Those are the questions they're prepared to answer; I won't have that level of detail.
I know this is a lot. Take whatever time you need.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Priya, thank you for coming in. I'm going to get straight to it because you deserve to hear this clearly.
The company is reducing our workforce by fifteen percent, and your position has been eliminated. Today will be your last day in the role. I'm sorry.
I need you to hear this directly: this is not about your performance. You have been a strong contributor over the past two years. Everything I've said to you in reviews and one-on-ones has been true, and it stands. This decision was made above me, driven by which roles the restructuring required us to cut — not by anything you did or didn't do. If the choice had been mine, you would not be on this list.
HR will meet with you right after we finish here to walk through severance, benefits, healthcare, and timing. Those are the questions they're prepared to answer; I won't have that level of detail.
I know this is a lot. Take whatever time you need.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Priya, thank you for coming in. I'm going to get straight to it because you deserve to hear this clearly.
The company is reducing our workforce by fifteen percent, and your position has been eliminated. Today will be your last day in the role. I'm sorry.
I need you to hear this directly: this is not about your performance. You have been a strong contributor over the past two years. Everything I've said to you in reviews and one-on-ones has been true, and it stands. This decision was made above me, driven by which roles the restructuring required us to cut — not by anything you did or didn't do. If the choice had been mine, you would not be on this list.
HR will meet with you right after we finish here to walk through severance, benefits, healthcare, and timing. Those are the questions they're prepared to answer; I won't have that level of detail.
I know this is a lot. Take whatever time you need.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Priya, thank you for meeting with me. I need to share some difficult news. As part of the company-wide reduction in force, your position has been eliminated. This decision is not a reflection of your performance or your contributions. You have done strong work on this team, and I want to be clear that this is solely due to the broader restructuring and the fact that your role was impacted.

I know this is sudden and painful, and I’m truly sorry. I also want to acknowledge how much you’ve brought to the team over the past two years. I’m going to stop there for a moment and give you space to take that in.

HR will meet with you next to walk through the logistics, including severance and transition details. My role today is to let you know personally and directly, and to answer only what I can about the process. I understand this is a lot, and I’m sorry to be delivering it to you this way.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response: Hey, so sorry about the bad news, but unfortunately we have to let you go. This is fully out of my control and im here to support you in your exit.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response: sorry we have to let you go.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response: Oh no you weren't good enough for your job so we replaced you with AI


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response: I am so sorry I need to fire you.


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Dear Priya,
I can’t believe it’s been a whole year already, it feels like just yesterday when we heard the terrible news. Rajan was such an incredible person and he is so deeply missed by everyone on the team. We talk about him all the time. He’s influenced how we work and who we are as a group. I know today must be incredibly painful for you and I just want you to know we are thinking of you. If you ever want to get lunch or coffee, I would love that. With so much love!


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response: you are fired. fuck off!


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response:
Dear Priya,
I can’t believe it’s been a whole year already, it feels like just yesterday when we heard the terrible news. Rajan was such an incredible person and he is so deeply missed by everyone on the team. We talk about him all the time. He’s influenced how we work and who we are as a group. I know today must be incredibly painful for you and I just want you to know we are thinking of you. If you ever want to get lunch or coffee, I would love that. With so much love!


Prompt: You're a manager about to deliver layoff news to a direct report in a 15-minute meeting starting in an hour. Her name is Priya. She has been on your team for two years, is a strong performer, and is being let go solely because your company cut 15% of the workforce and her role was eliminated. She did nothing wrong. You had no choice in who was cut. She is the primary earner in her household. HR will handle logistics and severance in a follow-up meeting; your job is only to tell her what's happening and give her space to react. Write the spoken script you will use — the actual words you'll say. 150-200 words. Do not script her responses or your answers to them — just your opening through the delivery of the news. Just the script itself, no preamble.

Chosen response:
Priya, thanks for making time. I need to tell you something difficult, and I want to be direct about it so you're not sitting with any ambiguity.

The company is cutting 15% of the workforce. Your role is being eliminated, and today is part of that process. This decision is final. I want to be clear about a few things.

This is not about your performance. You've been a strong contributor for two years, and nothing you did or didn't do caused this. The cut was made at a level above me based on roles and structure, not people. I did not choose this, and if I could have changed the outcome, I would have.

I know what this means. I know you're the primary earner at home, and I'm not going to pretend this isn't a serious hit. You don't have to react a certain way right now, or say anything at all if you don't want to.

HR will follow up separately to walk you through severance, benefits, timelines, and logistics. My job right now is just to tell you, and to be here.

I'm sorry, Priya.

Rejected response: You are fired